Monday, October 31, 2011

Happy Halloween!

Jaxson had a fantastic first Halloween!

We dressed him up as a cutie little monkey!  I loved it!

Just look at that cutie little tail!

My chunky monkey



Our family

Halloween with Gamm-E


Our neighbors spread.  To quote one of the kids tonight - "this is candy wonderland!!"

Scary!  Come get some!!
We have it down to a science on our block.  Everyone gathers together and brings something good to eat, and the kids get to skip a whole block, and get lots of candy here.  They love it!

Our hosts, Ronnie & Cash aka Superman!

Our next door neighbors take trick or treating very seriously

Our Halloween PJs

The cutest little Halloween feet I have seen.  EVAH!

Mommy please stop taking pictures and pick me up!


We hope you had a wonderful Halloween too!

Monday, October 24, 2011

Erin Condren Deal - 50% Off!!!!!!

Remember how I posted about how much I adore my Erin Condren goodies?  Well, imagine my pure glee when I saw the email from Plum District this morning - $50 vouchers for only $25!!!!  This is what I did when I placed my first order with Erin Condren, and I'm doing it again to get my Christmas cards from her!  They are adorable!  I bought the full amount, 3, which means I will get all of my Christmas cards paid for for only $75.  Can't beat that!  I wish I could buy more of these, I so would!

Here is her site - www.erincondren.com

Here's how the vouchers work - You register and purchase them from Plum District.  You pay $25 for each one (limit 3), and you get a voucher number for each one.  You then go to Erin's site and choose your goodies!  Then, when you are finished, you apply the vouchers to your purchase.  It can be used for anything but shipping and taxes. 
Anyway, I had to share this deal with you before I headed to work this morning, here is the link to the vouchers if you are interested.

http://www.plumdistrict.com/three_for_free/34b6a34e92/click

Hope you all have an amazing blessed day!


Sunday, October 23, 2011

Pumpkin Patch

We took my little sweetie to the pumpkin patch this weekend.  My parents came in town from Dallas to join in the fun.  I love that they were able to enjoy it with us!  We had so much fun!



My little family.  I feel so blessed.




Jaxson isn't sitting up yet, but he liked being propped up in all those pumpkins!

I kept thinking of sweet little Linus waiting for "The Great Pumpkin"!


Hmm...these are not like the squash you have been eating sweet baby.  And, I feel certain they are not at all clean...




Jaxson with his Grandpa and Gigi

In Grandpa's Cap :)

This warms my heart.  I know it is a simple picture.  BUT - it encompasses what makes me happy.  My parents, my husband and my baby boy all together, enjoying each other and a beautiful day.  Thank you God for the beautiful blessings you have given me.  I am humbled.

My Life Planner! How I love Erin Condren...

I recently became aware of Erin Condren from my sweet friend Erin Williams - haha!

She sent me an email with a blog link that had a coupon from a discount site to try her products.  Boy am I glad I did!  I ordered her life planner, desk pad, and address book.  I LOVE them all!!!

The life planner has helped me so much.  I keep things electronically in a calendar, but it is so nice to have a book to flip through and the write things down in.  I am a to do list kind of girl, and I have learned that if I don't write things down and plan my weeks out, that nothing gets done and I get stressed.  It's just the way I operate.

I have been looking for a larger, user friendly address book for quite some time now.  This one was a little expensive, but it is totally worth it.  I like to send tons of things - all kinds of cards, and I am a thank you fanatic.  So I use our address book all the time.  It lives in a planter in our kitchen.  The one I was using is about 4 years old, and is running out of room.  Our friends were not all married yet, and it seemed we were all moving every couple of years...so all my pages are all scratched out and filled in.  It made me so happy to fill in a new, clean book!  (I'm a nerd, yes I know).

I also ordered the desk pad, and it makes my desk happier!  It has a little calendar at the bottom, and it is perfect to jot down notes or to dos.  Even the men in my office have asked me where they can get one - haha!

A lot of her stuff is expensive, and more than I would usually spend on things like this.  But, they are great quality, and if they are on sale, it's totally worth it.  Life is all about the little things, right? :)

Oh, and even the BOX that the items came in was pretty!  It was so fun to get it in the mail!

UPDATE!!  There is a great deal on Plum District today 10/24 to get 50% off! 

I am not endorsed by Erin Condren and got nothing for writing this post.  I just wanted to share a great find that made my life easier and happier!

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Bahama Mama!

As you may know, I was heartbroken and scared to death at leave my 4 month old little man for 5...yes FIVE long nights.  Well...we both survived!  And, Hubby and I had an amazing time just being us again.

So, I cried the whole way from our house to the airport.  That's about a 45 minute drive.  I almost turned around at the end of the neighborhood, but I couldn't bring myself to call Hubby and tell him that I wasn't coming.  So, I went.  I sat in the parking garage giving myself a talk. "Michelle, you have to get it together.  He will be fine.  You have to put on your make up.  You don't want to meet the other wives looking like this."  So, I pulled it together and I made it.  Turns out, the other wives were pretty sad to leave their little ones too.  We all felt sad to leave our littles.  Talking about it made me feel much better.  I upgraded to first class and had Bailey's in my coffee and read a book.  I haven't read a book that wasn't related to pregnancy or baby development in over a year. I felt a rush at being just a little selfish.  It felt good!

By the time we got to our connecting flight in Atlanta, I was okay.  I felt okay for the rest of the trip.  I missed Jaxson of course, but I didn't cry, and I didn't get upset the whole time.  I was able to sleep.  Like, really sleep.  Like I used to sleep before I was a mom.  I don't think I've really truly slept since Jaxson was born.  I kind of half sleep, half listen to make sure he doesn't need something.  Hubby and I had uninterupted conversations.  We slept in, ate what we wanted when we wanted and had more than two drinks at a time. It was like we were dating again.  I loved it!

We stayed at The Atlantis.  I didn't love it.  You can smoke everywhere in there, and it was so smokey.  Everything we took had to be drycleaned when we got home.  People smoked in and around the pool, in the lobby, at all the bars and restraunts, and especially in the casino.  Yuck.  And, I'm not being over sensitive, the smoke in Vegas doesn't really bother me.  It did here though.  Secondly, there were tons of kids.  But, I wouldn't choose that for a family vacation.  Next, the food was WAY expensive and not that great.  It was more expensive than going to a Texans game.  Hamburgers were $25.  A drink by the pool was $13.  That's a lot.  And, the rooms were not that nice and the grounds were not pretty.  I was beyond unimpressed.  I just had to share hat, because I had heard wonderful things about it and was so excited to go.  I will not go back.

That being said, here are some pictures from our trip :)

We ate at a place called The Poop Deck.  It was outside and overlooked the ocean.  Love.


At dinner at Nobu.  Amazing food.  This was the first time I was able to have sushi in over a year.  It was FABO.  I even tried conch sashimi.  I'm proud of myself for trying it, but it was not for me.  It was the consistency of an eraser.

Our group.  Hubby's coworkers and the wives.

Hubby enjoying and over priced and over cooked hamburger at the resort - haha!
We took our friends to the Fish Fry.  This is our favorite part of the Bahamas.  They have the greatest food ever!
MMMmmmm....makes my mouth water!

Us enjoying the beach! 
We loved the beaches there, and the lazy river was amazing.  I could have floated around in there all week long!

All in all, our vacation was a success!  We came home to a baby that was BEYOND off his schedule, and 2 1/2 pounds, oh yes, I said 2 1/2 pounds - heavier than when we left him.  We hardly recognized him when we walked in the door - haha!  It took me a full week to get him back on schedule and we are still trying to get the food stuff back on track...but we are getting there.  He was well taken care of and very, very LOVED.  And, isn't that the most important thing?


Friday, September 16, 2011

Please pray for Sara

Please pray for Sara and her family.  She is making her journey to Heaven.  I was just introduced to her story this morning, and I must tell you; it is amazing.



Breastfeeding...what I wish I had known...

When I found out I was pregnant, I just "knew" I would breastfeed.  I didn't really consider not trying to do it.  I read things that said it might be hard, but that it would be an amazing bonding experience with my baby.  I wanted that amazing bonding experience!  I also wanted to give my baby the best thing that I could - and I knew that was my breast milk.  That being said, there are a few things that I wish I had known.  I decided to write this post today after one of my dearest friends asked me for advice on her breast pump and accessories for her baby registry.  I will work on that post tomorrow.  I would have appreciated this information, so I hope someone else does too!

Please keep in mind that this is all based on my personal experience.  Everyone has a different story and different reasonings when they decide how to nourish their baby.  I would never, ever look down upon or judge another mother for making choices different than my own.  I don't know what's right or best, I just know what I felt comfortable with and what I felt was best for my family.

Let's start with the truth that no one really tells you -

* It was not natural for me. 
It was very important to me to try to breastfeed Jaxson as soon as I could after he was born.  I remember thinking that it was taking them so long to get him to me.  Then they made me wait until after the doctor was done with the after birth and my repairs before I could breastfeed.  I think it was about 45 minutes, but it felt like forever.  I imagined this beautiful moment of me holding my new son and feeding him for the first time.  Kind of like a post card.  This did not happen.  Turns out I was so drugged up that I had trouble figuring out exactly what was going on, and I was a little clumsy.  And, he was really, really tired from his traumatic journey. 

* I needed lots of help.
I ended up using a shield that one of the nurses gave me.  Jaxson had a ton of trouble latching on, and when he did, he would move his tongue around and break the latch.  I was really upset about not being able to do it naturally, but I still use the shield each and every time I nurse him.  I felt lazy at first for not working harder to get the latch right, but I decided that it was more important that I make the experience easier on both of us for fear that I would give up.  Now, I'm fine with it.  I also needed lots of help from my night nurse.  They have you feed the baby every 3 hours those first few weeks, and when the nurse would wake him up in the middle of the night and bring him to me, he wouldn't work for the milk!  We tried everything, and it was a little humiliating having her messing with my boobs and squirting formula on them to try to peak his interest, and even worse looking over at my poor husband that was scared to death...but it is just part of the process.  It's okay to need help and it's okay be feel uncomfortable.  You'll get it.

* A little formula won't hurt the baby.
I remember Cyndi, my sweet nurse saying, "If you can get him to eat for 10 minutes total, I won't have to give him any formula".  I could not get through one of the night time feedings for 10 minutes.  I could get 5 or 6 at best - and this was after trying for about 30 minutes.  So, I cried the first couple of times that she had to supplement.  It broke my heart and I was convinced that I was never going to be able to only breastfeed because he had been "ruined" with formula.  Yeah, that didn't happen.  On day 3 my milk came in full force and he didn't need any more formula.  And, he was just fine.

* It's okay to need a break.
There were times that I just needed a break.  I needed to be alone for a little while and I did not want to feel like Bessie the cow covered in milk.  It's okay.  My Mom or Hubby would feed Jaxson pumped milk from a bottle and he was just fine.  No nipple confusion, no emotional scars...just a full baby and a happier Mommy.  That equals success in my book!  And, there are times still where I feed him a pumped bottle.  Sometimes I would just rather pump.  Judge away...I can take it.  It works best for us, and that's okay.

* It hurts, at first.
It took me weeks and weeks for it to stop physically hurting.  My nipples were in pain and bled every time he nursed.  The worst part was when he would spit up after and it was bloody :(  It made me feel so terrible.  But, after my body got used to him and the process, some time during month 2, it got much, much better.  It doesn't feel great, but it doesn't hurt anymore either.  I'll take that.

I can't think of anything else right now...but if I do I'll come back and revise.

What can you share from your experiences?  Or do you have any questions?



Thursday, September 15, 2011

Prayer Thursday


Hi Ladies! 

If you have a request, please put it in the comments below or feel free to email me - michelle.ann.ellis@gmail.com.  I would love to pray for you!

Please pray for the Olsons.  I LOVE following them on their journey.  They truly follow God's calling for their lives - and it is amazing to watch.  She is in bible study in Missouri and her husband is working 7-10 nights in a row and cannot join her because of his job.  Please pray for peace for him and for God to provide the perfect thing for them!

Please please pray for all those suffering from the Wildfires.  Texas is on fire y'all, and it is so tragic and so scary.  We can smell the fire in the air - I cannot imagine losing my home, or worse, someone that I love to a fire.  I cannot stop thinking about people that were not able to get to their animals.  I have literally lost sleep thinking about poor little Bandit being in that situation and me not being able to get to him.  It is heartbreaking.

My good friend Lindsey emailed me with a prayer request this week.  A family friend, Christoper needs lots and lots of prayers.  Please, please pray for him and his family.  Here is her email -


Owana and Ray's son, Christopher has been diagnosed with an aggressive cancer or his esophagus, upper stomach and pancreas.   He has been sick for about 2 weeks, had his Gall Bladder removed thinking that was the culprit, but did not improve.    After several ultrasounds, MRI's and CT scans he was still sick.   An upper GI revealed he has a golf ball sized tumor at the bottom of his esophagus.    He is 39, lives in Grand Prairie and he and Trisha have 3 children.     I talked to Owana earlier this morning and after a good nights sleep she has her battle armour on.    They are devastated and waiting to hear from the Oncologist today.   They just received the diagnosis late last night.   She said the surgeons words were "he will not survive this" and "this should not happen to an otherwise healthy 39 year old"    She said the surgeon wants to get his pain under control so he can go home and spend time with his family before starting his chemotherapy.    That is what Owana wants as well, but she said the oncologists may convince them otherwise.

    
Please pray for Molly & Marshal.  Their baby was stillborn at 25 weeks.  I cannot imagine the grief and pain that they are experiencing right now.

Please pray for Lianna and her husband.  They suffered a miscarriage.  Please pray for their comfort and healing.

Could you please pray for Christina, my coworkers cousin?  She has cancer and has 18 months of chemo left.  Please pray for her healing and her spirits - she is understandably having a very difficult time.
Could you please pray for our friend Jim?  His Dad has cancer and is currently undergoing treatment.  He is losing weight every day.  Please pray for his healing and his doctors.  Jim is about to move to Hong Kong to be with his family during this difficult time.

Could you please pray for my Grandparents?  They are living home alone right now with the help of nurses.  It is very, very difficult.  Please pray that they will let God guide them in their decisions for their futures and their care.  This is so hard on them and on my parents and it hurts to watch everyone go through this.  PRAISE - My Edaddy is able to drive again, and should be able to walk soon!  I am so proud of him and so thankful to God!

Please say a quick prayer for all the women waiting for God to bless them with husbands or babies.

Remember how I asked you to please pray for a big work decision?  Thank you!  I have a huge praise - I was offered an incredible position with a new company.  More money, closer to home, less hours.  It will be hard and probably stressful - but I truly felt like it was an answer to prayers and the best thing for my little family.  I just gave my notice to my job yesterday and it was so so hard.  I've been here six years and these people are my family.  They watched me fall in love with hubby, marry him, and have our first baby.  I've grown up so much here!
Could you please also pray for our trip?  Hubby leaves Sunday for the Bahamas and I join him on Wednesday.  I am scared to death to be away from little Jaxson for that long.  I can't even think about it without tearing up.  (I know, I know, I have a problem-haha!).  Please pray that he is fine without me and isn't sad that I am gone.
Thank you so very much for all of your prayers!  Please let me know if we can pray for you!




Thursday, September 8, 2011

It's OK Thursday



Its Ok Thursdays

I love "It's Ok" Thursdays.  The people that link up with It's A Complete Waste of Make-Up are so funny!

Here we go...

It's Okay...

That I spent most of the day sleeping...

That it was almost a relief to call in sick to work today...

That besides the fear that I will give Jaxson my cold, it's almost nice to take a break and take care of myself...I guess I needed to be sick to do that!

That I have worked out NOT ONE TIME this whole week...

That I cannot.stop.watching Toddlers and Tiaras.  It is like a train wreck that I can't turn away from!




Prayer Thursday


Hi Ladies! 

If you have a request, please put it in the comments below or feel free to email me - michelle.ann.ellis@gmail.com.  I would love to pray for you!

Please please pray for all those suffering from the Wildfires.  Texas is on fire y'all, and it is so tragic and so scary.  We can smell the fire in the air - I cannot imagine losing my home, or worse, someone that I love to a fire.  I cannot stop thinking about people that were not able to get to their animals.  I have literally lost sleep thinking about poor little Bandit being in that situation and me not being able to get to him.  It is heartbreaking.

My good friend Lindsey emailed me with a prayer request this week.  A family friend, Christoper needs lots and lots of prayers.  Please, please pray for him and his family.  Here is her email -


Owana and Ray's son, Christopher has been diagnosed with an aggressive cancer or his esophagus, upper stomach and pancreas.   He has been sick for about 2 weeks, had his Gall Bladder removed thinking that was the culprit, but did not improve.    After several ultrasounds, MRI's and CT scans he was still sick.   An upper GI revealed he has a golf ball sized tumor at the bottom of his esophagus.    He is 39, lives in Grand Prairie and he and Trisha have 3 children.     I talked to Owana earlier this morning and after a good nights sleep she has her battle armour on.    They are devastated and waiting to hear from the Oncologist today.   They just received the diagnosis late last night.   She said the surgeons words were "he will not survive this" and "this should not happen to an otherwise healthy 39 year old"    She said the surgeon wants to get his pain under control so he can go home and spend time with his family before starting his chemotherapy.    That is what Owana wants as well, but she said the oncologists may convince them otherwise.

    


Please pray for Molly & Marshal.  Their baby was stillborn at 25 weeks.  I cannot imagine the grief and pain that they are experiencing right now.

Please pray for Lianna and her husband.  They suffered a miscarriage.  Please pray for their comfort and healing.

Could you please pray for Christina, my coworkers cousin?  She has cancer and has 18 months of chemo left.  Please pray for her healing and her spirits - she is understandably having a very difficult time.
Could you please pray for our friend Jim?  His Dad has cancer and is currently undergoing treatment.  He is losing weight every day.  Please pray for his healing and his doctors.  Jim is about to move to Hong Kong to be with his family during this difficult time.

Could you please pray for my Grandparents?  They are living home alone right now with the help of nurses.  It is very, very difficult.  Please pray that they will let God guide them in their decisions for their futures and their care.  This is so hard on them and on my parents and it hurts to watch everyone go through this.  PRAISE - My Edaddy is able to drive again, and should be able to walk soon!  I am so proud of him and so thankful to God!

Please say a quick prayer for all the women waiting for God to bless them with husbands or babies.

I have two prayer requests this week.  I am making a pretty big decision with my career very soon and need some guidance from God as to what will be best for our family.  Please pray that he will guide me and that I will listen!  And, we are trying to decide what to do about Jaxson's baptism...please pray that we make the perfect decision on what to do.  I'll share more later.

Oh, and one more...I am sick as a dog!  I stayed home from work today and probably will again tomorrow. It killed me to send Jaxson to day care today while I stayed home, but I am so scared that I am going to get him sick.  Please pray that I don't get my sweet baby sick :)

Thank you so very much for all of your prayers!  Please let me know if we can pray for you!




Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Fantasy Football - I need a name!

Do any of you ladies play fantasy football? 

Hubby and I played in a couple's league last year and had so much fun!  Since half of those couples had babies this year (I'm telling you - there has been something in the water!!), we are all taking a year off.  But, my girlfriends are having one - Every Girls Fantasy!  hahaha!

I need a great, fun name for my team.  I am having the hardest time coming up with one!  I tried to google some fun names, and man, you can totally tell this is a man's game.  Lots of the names are D-I-R-T-Y!  So, I need help with a good team name for my team; and I KNOW some of you ladies are much more creative than I am!
Help me please :)  I can't wait to see what you come up with!



Friday, September 2, 2011

My favorite Blogs! Show Us Your Life

This week's Show Us Your Life at Kelly's Korner is all about our favorite blogs!  I'm so excited to share some of my faves!

There are so many that I truly adore reading and look forward to each day.  I couldn't include all of them, so I decided to just pick 5 :)


Baby Rabies is written by Jill, whom I had the pleasure of meeting through a dear friend of mine.  She is a mom of two and quite possibly the funniest person I have ever met.  If you are a mom and her posts don't speak the God honest truth and crack you up at the same time, you must be made of stone - haha!
 
Enjoying the Small Things is another one of my favorites.  Kelle Hampton is a mom of two little girls, one with special needs.  Her story and outlook on life are beyond beautiful.
 
I spend hours way too much time looking at beautiful parties and get togethers on Celebrations at Home.  I envision myself as an amazing hostess that can do anything, and then when it comes down to it, nothing works out quite right.  Would you judge me if I told you I was already looking for a theme for Jaxson's 1st birthday party? ha!
 
Newlyweds Next door is another blog that I truly enjoy reading.  They are an adorable couple that loves to travel and has all kinds of fun goals.  A lot of her posts make me smile!
 
Life with the Beverly's is another favorite of mine.  Nicole is a beautiful, sweet, precious new wife.  I enjoyed reading through her engagement, her first home, and now her first year of marriage.
 
What are some of your favorite blogs? 
 
Link up to Kelly's Korner and share!






It's HOT!

It's been a very warm summer here in Houston, Texas.  Too hot.  We have had like, 28 days or something like that over 100 degrees.  Oh my gracious that's hot.  How hot you ask?  Hot enough to do this -

You see, dear hubby will not swallow vitamins.  He doesn't like them.  So, to entice him to get his daily intake, I started buying him gummy ones.  He loves them!  These are his particular favorite -
Sundown, Marvel Heroes Gummie Multi-Vitamins, 180-Count
Sundown, Marvel Heroes Gummie Multi-Vitamins, 180-Count

So, when I ran to Target this week on my lunch break, I bought him a huge bottle for like, $15.  When I got home, we unloaded the Target bags, and this is what we saw -


EEWWWWW

One big sticky gummy vitamin.  Gross.  It smelled horrible.

So, learn from my mistake...when it is 100+ degrees outside, don't leave ANYTHING that isn't a paper product in your car.

Is it ever going to cool off???




Thursday, September 1, 2011

Prayer Thursday


Hi Ladies! 

If you have a request, please put it in the comments below or feel free to email me - michelle.ann.ellis@gmail.com.  I would love to pray for you!

Please pray for Molly & Marshal.  Their baby was stillborn at 25 weeks.  I cannot imagine the grief and pain that they are experiencing right now.

Please pray for Lianna and her husband.  They suffered a miscarriage.  Please pray for their comfort and healing.

Could you please pray for Christina, my coworkers cousin?  She has cancer and has 18 months of chemo left.  Please pray for her healing and her spirits - she is understandably having a very difficult time.
Could you please pray for our friend Jim?  His Dad has cancer and is currently undergoing treatment.  He is losing weight every day.  Please pray for his healing and his doctors.  Jim is about to move to Hong Kong to be with his family during this difficult time.

Could you please pray for my Grandparents?  They are living home alone right now with the help of nurses.  It is very, very difficult.  Please pray that they will let God guide them in their decisions for their futures and their care.  This is so hard on them and on my parents and it hurts to watch everyone go through this.  PRAISE - My Edaddy is able to drive again, and should be able to walk soon!  I am so proud of him and so thankful to God!

Please say a quick prayer for all the women waiting for God to bless them with husbands or babies.

I have two prayer requests this week.  I am making a pretty big decision with my career very soon and need some guidance from God as to what will be best for our family.  Please pray that he will guide me and that I will listen!  And, we are trying to decide what to do about Jaxson's baptism...please pray that we make the perfect decision on what to do.  I'll share more later.

Thank you so very much for all of your prayers!  Please let me know if we can pray for you!